Let
me start this post off with a disclaimer: I’m NOT a morning person. I never was
one, and never will be one, period. People ask me quite often, “How did you
manage to get the kids and everyone out the door to school and work, nicely
dressed, well fed, and on time every single morning?”.
Honestly,
it hasn't always been an easy task for me. If I were only to follow my
biological clock, we’ll never get out of the door before noon. So, here’s the
deal. Today, I’m going to let you peek inside our morning routine, and I’ll
share my Morning Rush Hour Tips with you.
One
thing you might not know about me was that I used to be a human resources
manager at a major communication company before I turned into a full-time mom.
What does this have to do with my family's current morning routine? Well,
everything! I can totally use my
management skills at home!
So,
here are a few important management skills that every successful manager should
know, and I’ll explain how each one
helps me in handling the morning rush.
1)
Understanding team dynamics.
All
kids are different, and my two kids certainly have very different
personalities. For instance, my little boy doesn't really care what he wears. I
can pick any outfit for him and he’ll be a happy camper. On the other hand, my
little girl loves to pick her own clothes. She might be in the mood to wear her
favorite jeans, or, she might feel a little girly and want her flowery dress.
If I don’t let her pick her own, she would be quite upset and request a change
of clothes.
I
learnt my lesson. I do not open the whole closet and let her choose randomly.
Instead, I usually pick out two different outfits, and let her choose. That
way, she doesn't spend all morning deciding what she wants, she gets to pick
her own clothes, yet, the outfits are always appropriate for the weather and
occasion. What a win-win situation!
2)
Delegating effectively.
3)
Communication
Make
sure communication is a two way street. This means that I talk, they listen.
Just
kidding! It’s important to let the kids express their feelings and what they
want/need as well. Trust me, it makes the process much easier when you know
what their little minds are thinking.
4)
Planning and Time Management
Planning
is very important to conquer hectic mornings. I try to have everything prepared
the night before, if possible. This includes picking out outfits, packing kids’
and hubby’s lunch boxes, and preparing breakfast if it’s something I can make
ahead. If not, I’ll at least prep the ingredients that I need.
Here are two recipes that my family loves, and you can make them ahead of time. You can click here to get the Breakfast Cookies recipe, and click here for the Banana Bread with Chocolate Chips.
I
hope my little tips help with your family's hectic morning rush. Feel free to
leave a comment below if you have a favorite tip to share.